I need a volunteer model . . .

I thought I would try something new (thanks Pinterest!) but realized the headbands are much cuter when worn than just photographed on a table, so I need a model, Dan said Evan was not allowed after he saw the only photo I took!

The headband fabric is made of stretchy t-shirt type material and the flowers are the same, some have a little dark green felt leaf. Each headband is $6.00  Keep in mind the more you purchase from my little Sisterhood2Motherhood Boutique the more I will make a deal! (and how much we appreciate your adoption fundraising support!)

Q & A and how you can specifically pray

Since our New Years announcement we have had several questions, as you might imagine. Some wonderful friends have also asked, how can they  specifically pray for our family during this process. I thought I would attempt to answer some of those.

- How long will it take?
   Oh how I wish I knew this answer.  We are trying to keep our expectations low or realistic and guessing we will travel before she is two. One thing are well aware of is that with International Adoption there are no guarantees or exact timeline.  The Lord has blessed us with previous trials that have taught us some degree of patience. I pray that keeping up with Evan will keep our minds occupied and time will go a little easier than the first time! (one can hope!)
**Please pray that our minds will be at peace and Baby Mun will remain healthy and continue with appropriate growth and development.

- When is her birthday?
  March 13, 2012!  

- Why is Baby Mun at a different agency in Korea? (different than Evan)
   South Korea has 4 major adoption/social welfare agencies (I think 4).  In the past few years the agencies have been overwhelmed with babies and birth moms. We do not know if our birth mom attempted to go back to ESWS (where Evan started out) or if she decided to go a different route.  She does know that Evan was adopted in America, but other than that we do not know how much she knows.  We have sent letters and photos and continue to do so.  
** Please pray that God would bless our children's birth mother and He would comfort her during this difficult time. Pray that social and cultural constraints will change so that birth mothers would have the support to raise their children when possible.

- What is with this 'new law' and how does it affect you?
  South Korea has changed how the do adoptions, both domestic and international. The law started in August, I am not sure if much has happened since then, from what I understand the process is at a standstill.  All adoptions now need to go through the family court system. This adds a step and currently I am not sure if there is a real plan how to implement this change, what the court will be looking for (any other documents that haven't already been submitted when we accepted baby's referral - it is a huge amount of paperwork). Another step is the birth mother now has to officially/publicly relinquish her baby to the family court. Unfortunately, because of this new step many birth mothers are uneasy with the public relinquishment and are abandoning their babies to the agency but not making an adoption plan.  Because of this new law these children are not eligible for adoption (domestically or internationally) and will remain a ward of the state. Perfect children unable to be adopted, I am absolutely heartbroken!

**Pray for changes to be made that when a birth family is unable to care for their children that families (domestic or internationally) will step in and adopt these children. Pray that birth families will surround birth moms with comfort and support. Pray for wisdom and swiftness for the court administrators and other adoption officials involved.  


- What does Evan think about getting a sister?
ummm he's 2, not much going on in his world other than 'ME ME ME ME'  We showed him a photo, but really he doesn't care about photos unless he knows who it is in the photo. He doesn't understand the word 'sister', but of course the word 'baby,' but in his mind any baby = jealousy. Good thing we have a while to work on that.
** Evan (and us) is in for a real shock, pray that we will have wisdom, patience, and kindness in preparing him for a sister (and international travel). Pray that our transition home with Baby Mun will be smooth and Evan will enjoy having a sister and not too annoyed that our attention will be significantly shifted. The transition home with Evan was incredibly difficult and I am so thankful Dan was home all summer with me; pray for God's perfect timing and we are able to adjust appropriately.

- Is Baby Mun in a foster home?
  Yes, A lovely foster family with two grown sons, They have been fostering children for 20 years.
**Pray for perseverance and continued blessing for our foster family. It was very difficult for Evan's wonderful Foster family to let go of him after so long, Mrs. Choi's love helped Evan become such a great kid! Pray for our new foster family, for their health, energy, and continued loving care of our baby girl.

Gift Sets and new creations . . .

Had a few minutes so wanted to put together a few gift set ideas in case you are looking for ideas!

Let the Fundraising Commence! 

 

Handmade Crochet Infant/Toddler hats  $10

New Bows!

Double Decker Bows and Large Frilly Bows $4.50

(lined on an alligator clip)

 

I have a confession . . . .

I have a confession, I have a huge secret.  It has been absolutely gut-wrenching to hold it in for more than two months!  Normally I cannot keep a secret (at least my own) for more than a few hours.

We got a call in mid-October that Evan has a sister! Usually a 'sibling call' makes the adoption process actually a bit simpler/easier/faster, whatever you want to call it. However we have been fighting to adopt her since then. I say 'fight' because it was been an emotional and spiritual battle! Because of some new adoption laws in Korea and because our daughter is with a different adoption agency in Korea than Evan was, there have been some complications in convincing the adoption agency we are the family for her. However we received approval and finally got a photo of our baby girl!

Bom Mun 9 months in November

Please keep us in your prayers:

- while we remain patient in the waiting process
- as we prepare E for a baby sister (big drama will await us I'm sure)
- the continued health and development of Baby Mun
- the Korean gov't and other adoption officials for wisdom and prompt approvals!
- blessing the foster family for their tireless dedication and love for our baby!

Few Holiday Extras

I have added a few new items, they are going fast so let me know if you are interested!  I still have a few Tutus, crib shoes left and a variety of cotton ruffle bloomers, see the last blog post!

Small Satin Bloomers, size up to 6 months!  $8.00

Leg warmers! Perfect for your little girl! 3x11 inches, approx for 12m-3T  $4.00

Taggies, Tutus, and Treasures!

We have decided to start the fun process of paperwork for a second adoption. Not only does that take patience and perseverance but also fundraising! so here is my attempt:

Taggies are about 12x12 (not including the tags) $15.00 each

 

Flannel Surfboard with Green/White Zebra Minky Taggie - Sold but can be replicated           

Satin Pink Leopard and Hot pink Rose Minky Taggie Sold but can be replicated 

Corduroy Light Blue Ladybugs and Large dot Minky Taggie
Sold but can be replicated 

Flannel Light Blue animals and Chocolate Dimple Dot Minky Taggie

Flannel Muted floral and Olive green rose minky Taggie

Flannel Light blue Monkey and Tangerine Minky Taggie

Flannel Punk Skulls/ Black and white Minky Taggie - Sold but can be replicated

Flannel Elephants and Turquoise/Navy Zebra Minky Taggie

Green cotton and Kelly Green Dimple Dot Minky Taggie
Sold but can be replicated  

33x36 crib size  Backed with green yellow duck soft flannel, pieced with Yellow minky, flannels, and cottons. Finished with a silky satin Tangerine ruffle. $55

33x36 crib size  Backed with yellow farm animals flannel, pieced with lime minky, flannels, and cottons; finished with a silky satin light blue ruffle $55

33x36 crib size  Backed with green and brown soft flannel, pieced with Chocolate brown minky, flannels, and cottons. Finished with a silky satin Chocolate ruffle.$55

33x36 crib size  Backed with yellow farm animals flannel, pieced with Kelley green minky, flannels, and cottons. Finished with a silky satin Kelley Green ruffle. $55

Apron Set: Matching Hand Towel and Gloves $25.00

 Single Apron $15

 Apron Set $25.00

 Apron Set $25.00

Life is Good Apron and two Hand Towels $25.00

These are 4" hair bows $2.50

8 inch crochet top or headband (great for those little ones to wear with tutus) I also have hot pink. $2.00

I have a wide variety of crib shoes, let me know what you are looking for and I will check! $4.00 or Two for $6.00

Pink, hot pink, lavender, purple and lime colored bloomers $4.00
Sizes : Small 3-6 mos, Medium 6-12 mos

I have small and medium polka dot bloomers $4.00

I have three super fun reversible tutus: Orange/Yellow, Turquoise/Lime, and Lime/Yellow (for those Packers fans)
 

I only have a few Pink Tutus left $7.00

I have a White Rosette and  a Lavender Rosette Tutu left $7.00

These fun angel wings are approximately 9"x7.5"  $3.00